DON'T FORSAKE UR LOVE.

This is the time you will know if you really love your wife. You know what the problem is? You married at a very early age and this has so much affected you that you did not even enjoy half of what some bachelors enjoyed. Even in a marriage you can have a crush The possibility of having a crush while in a relationship but you are bound to control the feelings. You made the mistake when you met with the girl, you shouldn't have done that. If you love your woman you need to steak with her. Think about it, how will you feel if you were the one in her shoes? Whatever you will not want her to do for you learn to also not do it for her because you knew from the start she was older before you started, you cannot make that a yard stick for falling and breaking in love here and there. If you really want my advice, please let that girl go and work on ways to make your marriage work.